Joie de Vivre

oursustainableworld:

nbee:

monsters-against-negativity:

Tbh it costs $0.00 to just let people explore their identities in peace so they can find what does and doesn’t fit them

So many people are worried “well what if they just go through a phase and realize they aren’t what they thought they are?” 

And how is that a bad thing? Exploring yourself is apart of life and it’s okay if you attach yourself to an identity at one point of your life, but then realize later on that it doesn’t fit you as well anymore. People should be more focused on the exploration and thinking “wow, I’m going to know myself better after this experience regardless of how it turns out” rather than being afraid of what might not fit them and then never exploring yourself. 

✨🙌👏

oursustainableworld:

nbee:

monsters-against-negativity:

Tbh it costs $0.00 to just let people explore their identities in peace so they can find what does and doesn’t fit them

So many people are worried “well what if they just go through a phase and realize they aren’t what they thought they are?” 

And how is that a bad thing? Exploring yourself is apart of life and it’s okay if you attach yourself to an identity at one point of your life, but then realize later on that it doesn’t fit you as well anymore. People should be more focused on the exploration and thinking “wow, I’m going to know myself better after this experience regardless of how it turns out” rather than being afraid of what might not fit them and then never exploring yourself. 

✨🙌👏

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. Delete “ought”, “must” and “should” from your vocabulary.

2. Get rid of all unrealistic goals, and replace them with realistic, achievable goals.

3. Accept and love yourself unconditionally.

4. Recognize that NOBODY is perfect – despite what the media, or other people, say.

5. Love your quirks and value your uniqueness.

6. See mistakes as lessons on the road to success.

7. Notice all the positives, and small accomplishments.

8. Enjoy, and be thankful for, the good things in your life.